Friday, 28 March 2014

Hugging Etiquettes.

Hello guys! So sorry I was unable to add some newer posts as a result of some issues. Today! I will share some things you need to know about hugging. Mostly everybody including me, likes to be hugged. Whenever anyone hugs you, it portrays that you are important to the fellow. So for you not to misuse or abuse this gesture, I will advice you to put these in action.

1. You don’t be the first to open your arms, whenever you are about to hug someone most especially guys to ladies. Unless the fellow is a very close pal of yours. You do this to avoid embarrassment because it is not everyone that likes the ‘hugging’ of a thing.

2. You don’t ignore those who open arms to hug you because it means that you are important to them.

3. Like I said earlier, if you are meeting an opposite gender for the first time or whenever, you allow her to open her arms first. You wait for them to make the move first even if she is a casual friend, so your gesture won’t be seen as you been indisciplined and desperate. People prefer reserved personalites. Though! You might not be ignored but your gesture will portray the wrong thing.

4. A side hug portrays friendship while full body hug portrays that you are very special to the fellow and it can be a gesture for a deep appreciation over a thing.

5. Too much of everything is bad.

I hope these few things will help. Thanks for checking by today. Have a funfilled weekend! Try not to miss tomorrow’s post titled ‘OMG! Every one hates me’.

Let's Have Sex.

Let’s have sex! Sex? No! I cant. I know! I know for sure that you don’t love me. Hello everyone! How is your week going? Hopefully, It has been a productive week. Today, I need you to understand that there is more to love than just having sex.
If your male partner comes around to say, I need to have sex with you. Pre marital sex,then he doesn’t love you and he is after your body. I know few people will argue this out, that how sure am I? I just need you the female partner to ask him why he wants sex? You will be shocked with his answers. There are 2 answers that comes often which are;

1. You are beautiful and whenever we see each other or think about you, I can’t just put away the feelings of having sex with you.

2. My friends are having sex with their partners and I don’t want to be left behind, because they want to hear a good testimony of how I had sex. Or I need to be sure of how sexually active, I am or wants to know if you can ever get pregnant and we can abort it after all. It is just a pratical to be sure of no problems after marriage.

Now! Firstly, I need you to understand, the guy that cannot put himself together whenever he sees you, he is indiscipline. No doubt! If you actually end up with him, whenever he comes in contact with your female friends, female servants or maids, baby sitters and even his female staffs or any beautiful lady around, he lustfully around to have an affair. But! I wouldn’t blame him because he opened up to you earlier before marriage, you allowed him to have premarital sex with you, so extramarital sex is just an advancement and you were not wise enough to run away from such relationship. Such man’s mentality is just about sex and nothing less.

Secondly! There is a saying that I heard sometimes back, which says; if you can’t stand for something, you can fall for anything. If your partner can get easily influence by his friends or easily falls for peer pressure, then you are into a big proble. Your feelings about how things are happening in your relationship doesn’t move him but only by what his friend says to him about his sex life, drives him to have sex. So, expect bigger problems. So, it is better you quit such relationship that is just based on what his friends says to him. Friends! Good friends can advise you, but it is left to you to think about it and make a stand.

In conclusion! Ladies, you are most times at loosing ends. Who gets pregnant? Ladies! I think. Unwanted pregnancy brings about future and vision termination. Even if you abort it, you may get some important parts of your reproductive organ damaged. If you are fortuntate, you may escape it for the first time but he will still come around to have it (sex) done again. This time! You may be unfortunate which can results to death or make you barren. No man will like to end up with a liability. Ladies! Wise up. Premarital and extramarital has some spiritual consequences. Please! Feel free to add your comments and share with us what you think or will like to add. I remain Owoyemi Olamilekan. Thank you!